I have a question to ask you. How did your wife handle the idea of you crossdressing?
She’s actually Ok with it now, but it hasn’t always been that way.
I think when I first brought it up to her she had very stereotypical thoughts go through her head. She thought that this could be me trying to be a “sissy” or even TG… but I was very open with her and we had a lot of conversations about it. It took her a while to be OK with it. One day, I don’t remember when, she finally realized that I just like to wear clothes, all clothes, regardless of what gender they were initially designed for. I was able to show her that what I liked to wear didn’t define me as a human or the roll that I play in our relationship.
Now, since we are practically the same size (well… I’m about 6” taller, and she’s considerably larger in the breasts… but actual size wise we wear the same one) she sees it as just an expanded wardrobe.
And really… what wife wouldn’t be OK with that?